Cmon Marriage/Relationship poll

[Evil Dave]

Originally posted by fieldarchy
Ok see I\'ve heard so many guys say this but when I am blunt and ask a guy out they seem to be . . . afraid or something. I don\'t get it.

Examine your approach, are you perhaps coming across as too needy?

Are you asking men who knew any of your ex\'s? Guys talk, too.

Are you sending up red flags that you are the type that is high maintenance?

Are you giving up too much information before you ask them out?

Guys from work?

From my experience, guys just won\'t turn down a nice looking young woman without a major reason.

Since you seem to be the common denominator in these attempts, logic would dictate you look at your behavior.

(Not trying to be insulting, here, Meg. lol)

 

[Torn blue sky]

lol I would just be like \"sure! Why didn\'t you say something before!?\" lol

My intuition and gut feeling is pretty good, but when it comes to the ladies I deffinately don\'t have much of a clue in that respect. Always seem to overlook the subtlties

 

[nick232]

on the poll it says somethimg about marrage but having an affear


has anyone actually admitted this????

 

[Roger Bunting]

Steelcut has, but it\'s only technically an affair as he\'s waiting for the divorce to be finalised.

 

[stubert]

Im not single enymore.

I met her last night, it was amazing. We went on a carpet ride to the moon.....no wait ??? Shit it was a dream. Again.....stu.....

 

[lizcam]

Originally posted by nick232
on the poll it says somethimg about marrage but having an affear


has anyone actually admitted this????

5 people so far have checked it but other than steelcult\'s technicality, who would actually admit it? Rule 1) on affairs has got to be \"Admit nothing\".

 

[Torn blue sky]

So what are you admiting to Liz??? lol

 

[Infidel Castro]

Originally posted by Torn blue sky
Always seem to overlook the subtlties

Does that say SUBTITLES or SUBTLETIES? I\'d prefer the first option as subtitles are really quite helpful: with the different colour lettering and the information about sounds and background stuff they really do paint a picture. That\'s got to be a good thing, right?

I find I\'m too straightforward as well. I\'ll tell someone I like them and all I ask in return is that the person I\'ve told I like them be equally as honest with me in return. There\'s nothing worse than making an arse of yourself on an ongoing basis. Once is enough! Though like lono said, the bittersweetness of it all can be excruciatingly marvellous!

 

[Torn blue sky]

Subtleties...but subtitles would be f**king marvelous!!!
\"So what do you do for a living?\"
~How much money do you make?~

\"My ex...\"
~I\'m currently availiable~

lol if only!

 

[Infidel Castro]

Then we\'re in agreement TBS!

 

[lizcam]

Originally posted by Torn blue sky
So what are you admiting to Liz??? lol

Who? Me? I admit to NOTHING! lol

 

[freakinacage]

Originally posted by reverend
There\'s nothing worse than making an arse of yourself on an ongoing basis.

why, i\'ve made a career out of that!

 

[vincegamer]

Originally posted by atacam
Hey I know you didn\'t ask for pics but i\'m proud

You\'re not the only one:

Our marriage may not be as \"fresh\" as it once was...lol

 

[Torn blue sky]

I concuur! It\'s an awesome line of work! I\'m the best at what I do, and what I do ain\'t pretty lol

 

[DaN]

Just thought...
Are hands, battery-operated implements or infalatable friends regarded as valid relationships? lol

 

[fieldarchy]

Originally posted by Evil Dave

Examine your approach, are you perhaps coming across as too needy?--Nope, in fact I\'ll usually just say, \"Hey, I like you. Would you like to go out sometime\". Normally guys know I enjoy my space if we get to that point.

Are you asking men who knew any of your ex\'s? Guys talk, too.--HECK NO! I mean I\'m crazy but not that crazy. Once I\'m done with an ex I\'m done. Friends and all.

Are you sending up red flags that you are the type that is high maintenance?--you have to be joking right? So not high maintenance. Jeans, tshirt kinda girl and then as far as dating, if I can see you twice a week I\'m good.

Are you giving up too much information before you ask them out?--such as? I\'m honest and when I\'m getting to know someone if they ask a question, they will receive the answer. So, I don\'t volunteer any questionable information if that\'s what you are referring to. If they ask, they ask.

Guys from work?--They ask me out. Last one I dated ended in disaster so no more. Tried this twice in two different offices and NEVER AGAIN!

From my experience, guys just won\'t turn down a nice looking young woman without a major reason.--<shrugs> maybe it\'s the scales I\'m growing underneath my clothes.

Since you seem to be the common denominator in these attempts, logic would dictate you look at your behavior.--I pretty much keep to myself but am social in groups in public. Never over the top really, just being me. I never front . . . what you see is what you get.

(Not trying to be insulting, here, Meg. lol) --you? not trying to be insulting?! Dave, don\'t lie!

 

[Torn blue sky]

So that\'s your line of fancy eh?
Now we\'ve already concuured that admiting nothing means you\'re having an affair...

So you basically just really screwed yourself over lol lol lol

 

[lizcam]

Originally posted by Torn blue sky
So that\'s your line of fancy eh?
Now we\'ve already concuured that admiting nothing means you\'re having an affair...

So you basically just really screwed yourself over lol lol lol

lol
Maybe I\'m admitting nothing because theres nothing to admit. Who knows? I do. Do you?

Anyway, Heres for all you people out there in the dating pool

 

[supervike]

Hmm...I\'ve will have been married for 19 years coming up this year.

That\'s alot of years!

 

[Infidel Castro]

I\'ve been married 6 and a half. That\'s not bad. Sepaeated for over 4 yrs though. That\'s not so good Actually, it is very good. We were not compatible!