Originally posted by lizcam
Originally posted by mattrock
I\'m probably going to get strung up for asking this, but it\'s something I truly don\'t understand...
First, as many of you know, I make no effort to hide the fact that I\'m Christian. The thing is, I don\'t expend a lot of effort patronizing athiests or any others for that matter who disagree with me. Even when their arguments are blatantly flawed and/or obviously develop on ignorance. And to be sure, many have good arguments. I don\'t bother arguing with them too much either. As I\'ve stated before, arguing on a message board is like running in the special olympics: even if you win you\'re still retarded.
That said, I am always overwhelmed by how many forum denizens are not just non-Christian (which is certainly acceptable) but are, in fact, antagonistically anti-Christian. It\'s very easy to discount all people of faith (be they Christian or any other belief system) as ignorant narrow-minded twits, but to do so completely disregards some of the great thinkers of our time.
Don\'t get me wrong, I\'m not offended or anything, but I gotta say, I fancy myself a pretty empirical thinker and at the same time a pretty faithful Christian and I don\'t really think those two things have to be mutually exclusive.
So....as a Christian among you, I have to ask: why the animosity?
Myself, Shawn, Airhead and others that participate here and are otherwise accepted as intelligent contributors to the community are all people of faith...are we considered narrow-minded and cognitively handicapped?
Just my thoughts.
I can only speak from my own experiences here so this in no way is a generalization for everyone.
For me I have serious issues with Christians because of past treatment by them. I was raised in a cult by well meaning parents. In many ways they were very good to me and I\'m not talking about anything sexual here. But I have mentioned before that I went to their school where everything was heavily censored and I was totally un-prepared for real life when the school closed. Many of my school mates from those days (50%) have either spent a great deal of time in mental health facilities or have committed suicide.
The worst of it is the amount needless guilt that was heaped on me most of my life because of religion. I was taught to hate my body, sex and anything pleasurable. And I was taught that because my cousins, Grandparents and other relatives didn\'t believe what was \"right\" they would fry in hell for eternity. All of this scarred me for life and made me never trust an organized religion.
Then there\'s Christianity\'s handling of my son. Being a liberal person I decided when my son was born that I would not stand in his way if he wanted to be Christian or Jewish or what ever. I gave him a basis in all the religions growing up. Finally he asked if he could go to a Baptist bible study group with some of his friends. I dutifully took him and he was really enjoying it.
Then we got new, very religious neighbors. Their son was the same age as my son and they were hard core proselytizers. This little boy started to ride my son about everything, nagging him if my son expressed a different view point from the \"accepted\" one. It was non-stop.
After about a year my son told me he never wanted anything to do with religion again. I tried to explain that it wasn\'t all of religion but just this one family but he would have nothing of it. I finally had to talk to the kids parents about it and they told me that this boy was just doing god\'s work and obviously my son had sins that he was not confronting.
This is the thing. I\'ve found that under the guise of religion a person can say and do things that are not only rude but out-right wrong and the rest of the world is supposed to roll over and take it. Because \"it\'s god\'s word\". That\'s my big issue with Christianity. The assumption that they can rule the world. It wasn\'t always like this. I remember a time when common politeness still ruled. But that\'s no longer in effect. I begrudge no one their religion and I do have beliefs of my own but I choose not to discuss them as I will not be a hypocrite.
Sorry for the rant. I promise to go back to being light hearted and fun.

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