@ jester
you definetly got a point. This \"no kid is left behind\" doesn´t exist here in germany and i agree with your opinion that it will only cause those kids to feel encouraged to go on with their behaviour.
when i came to primary school in berlin that was EXACTLY the problem.we we´ve been a class of 30 kids ( much to large ) and five of the boys were total nuts. Little Psychopaths. that may sounds too hard for you, but believe me, if a tv show like nanny 911 would have had existed at this time, i would have called it immediately. Here are some examples of what they did:
dragging girls in underwear out of the changing room after P.E. or taking stuff from the other guys and threw it into the girls changing room. flushing keys down the toilet.beating up kids for now reason at all.
kicking Footballs and other stuff over the school fence , ....
well, and what did the school do ?
they talked to the parents, who where obbviously not interested in educating there kids, they talked with them (of cause they never listened ) , and finally the school pinned a note to the bulletin board saying that they were bad , uneducated students. great idea , isn´t ? appeal to the conscience of a bunch 11 year old a**:cussing: who thought it was fun to mob other kids. Don´t get me wrong im AGAINST spanking kids, but when you are confronted with such kids you should come up with a punishment that really affects them
EDIT:
just remembered that weird classmate and friend my brother had when he went to grammar school. i guess you all know Eric Cartman from Southpark. and i know that must sound like a made up story, but this kid was like a real life Cartman: he was (really) fat, spoiled and stupid. like cartman he was a only kid living with his single parent ( his dad ), who obviously never punished him and like Cartman he had an attitude that was really antisocial.
After knowing that kid for a few months, i asked my brother about him and he told me that he spend his entire day in front of computer playing videogames and eating chips (not that cheesie stuff

).
my point is, if some parents would actually care about their kids education instead of placing them in front of the tv or computer we wouldn´t have to deal with such brats