Vlad I have alot of respect for you. I have a friend in a similar psoition who refuses the doctors decision. As to what is normal for our hobby I mean Ive been married 3 times ans have 4 kids to different women. I do Sho bu Kai, work out 3-5 times a week and bike as often as I can. I aint no cellar dwellar either, Oh yer and I shower at least once a day weather I need it or not and I own deodourant and know how to use it.