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Fizl

Secret Crocodile
Standing up for Simon here...

Just have to say that he isn\'t currently claiming any sort of unemployment or housing benefit.

He is still painting little toy soldiers, as you have seen in Harbinger and probably on the Urban Mammoth website.

Can\'t comment on the anti-social habits though - I\'m sure everyone has those lol

Shaz
 

Infidel Castro

New member
Glad to see he\'s stopped the blagging - it must have been a recent thing him coming off the dole as he was doing it only shortly before we left.

Grown man like him needs a proper job like lol
 

Dragonsreach

Super Moderator
Staff member
Stepping in as a Moderator!

Reverend. You have now made several statements against Simon (Sturmhalo) when you know he no longer has an account on Coolmini and cannot answer or refute those statements.
Whatever terms you and he parted company on, because he cannot respond your comments on here strike me as being somewhat gutless.

You have also made allegations which infer that Simon has been claiming benefits to which he is not entitled.
If you have proof of these then they should be taken to the correct legal authories, do not use this public forum to make such allegations.
If you have no proof and are merely \"Shouting off\" then you place yourself in the position of having commited either a Defamation of Character or a Libel in a public forum and this cannot be allowed to continue.
 

Infidel Castro

New member
Bad choice of words Mike. I lived with the fella for a year and he was doing it during at least half that time. Defamation is not an issue when I\'m just telling plain facts. I didn\'t open a specific thread about this - I just responded to M Tay\'s question and elaborated somewhat. I must say Mike, you seem to be quite heavy-handed in this instance. Whatever rights you seem to be standing by (moral, the forum rules etc), they fall away somewhat when some bloke (like me) is telling the truth about some bloke (like Simon) who was blagging the dole and still working on the side. I ain\'t reporting him, and it certainly wouldn\'t have been sensible at the time it was happening as it would have been me, my girlfriend and my best mate who would have suffered financially in paying bills and rent and tax to cover the fact he had no funds due to being shopped in.

And as far calling me gutless, that\'s fair enough. But he knows how I feel about it anyway. I wish he did post here still as I\'d like to hear him respond some way or another. However, he won\'t come here as he hates virtually all of you anyway. Me probably more so. The only person he had time for really was Fizl, and fair play to her for standing up for him. However, she ain\'t lived with the fella for a year and seen him in action. I reserve that right Mike!

Anyway, good to chat to you again. You seem to be less apparent than most here these days ;)
 

War Griffon

New member
Now where did I leave that armchair pint of guinness and bag of peanuts...

Oh that\'s right I stowed them away in a bought of tidyness before I go back out to sea again damn I seem to miss all the fun :(
 

MarkusTay

New member
Sorry if I started something...

Rev - Didn\'t know you two were no longer mates, I enjoyed both of your posts tremendously. Damn shame it ended badly... :(

Mike - I don\'t think Rev was saying anything that he wouldn\'t say if Simon were here, he\'s a prick no matter who\'s in the room. ;)

Shaz - Glad to see someone jump to Si\'s defense, artists tend to be an emotional and unpredictable lot. Usually, the higher the talent, the higher the eccentricity... and ol\' Sturmy is VERY talented... :D

I hope the recent heavy-handedness around here isn\'t a trend... next we\'ll all be expected to be PC. lol

I\'ve become very maudlin lately, and in the greater scheme of things does any of this crap really matter that much?
 

Infidel Castro

New member
Aye, but there are ways and means. I was a little bitchy. It\'s all bonafide, but it\'s not a clever way to vent.

Maudlin, Mr Tay? What seems to be the matter? Everything okay? ???
 

Dragonsreach

Super Moderator
Staff member
Originally posted by MarkusTay
I hope the recent heavy-handedness around here isn\'t a trend... next we\'ll all be expected to be PC. lol
Don\'t be silly, PC is a computer not a Dictat.

As to the \"heavy handedness\" well I\'m sorry that it came out like that but, Reverend managed to hit the trigger point of one of my Personal Principles. (Don\'t look so surprised, I do have some principles.)

However Reverend and I have had a very friendly discussion , via PM, about this and I consider that the matter is resolved.

Reverend has made a generous public apology. And I also wish to apologise to all forum members for starting yet another contentious moment.
 

MarkusTay

New member
Originally posted by reverend
Maudlin, Mr Tay? What seems to be the matter? Everything okay? ???
I had a very long post here originally, but then the internet ate it; suffice it to say that since my father passed things have been... challenging.

Mike- My comment wasn\'t aimed at you, actually, but the general trend lately to close a thread when people say things others don\'t wish to hear. And it\'s not so much the mods; members are requesting threads be closed! It\'s like television - if you don\'t like whats on change the channel. No one is forcing anyone here to read threads against their will. I have avoided threads myself because I found the topics have hit a nerve, it\'s not so hard. And yes... there are things EVEN I don\'t like talking about.

;)lol
 

Ebonbuddha

Active member
Well, not to stir things up, but my friend (the I hate CMON guy) actually chatted with Sturn Halo.I think it was about soccer or something. I think those two would have become best buddies if it wasn\'t for the atlantic ocean seperating them. Thats really scary sincethey are so much alike.
 

Infidel Castro

New member
Originally posted by Dragonsreach
Originally posted by MarkusTay
I hope the recent heavy-handedness around here isn\'t a trend... next we\'ll all be expected to be PC. lol
Don\'t be silly, PC is a computer not a Dictat.

As to the \"heavy handedness\" well I\'m sorry that it came out like that but, Reverend managed to hit the trigger point of one of my Personal Principles. (Don\'t look so surprised, I do have some principles.)

However Reverend and I have had a very friendly discussion , via PM, about this and I consider that the matter is resolved.

Reverend has made a generous public apology. And I also wish to apologise to all forum members for starting yet another contentious moment.

Erm, PM\'s are supposed to be private Mike! I didn\'t want a broadcast about me PMing you.

And Mr Tay, I see what you mean and I go with you on most of what you say. Absolutely.
 

Dragonsreach

Super Moderator
Staff member
Phil: I don\'t see it as a problem that we showed sense and discussed this as Adults without involving the whole forum.
As you well know there was nothing underhand about our discussions and I think that they were rather beneficial to ourselves as well as this thread.
 

Infidel Castro

New member
It\'s a little like my boss at work telling everyone that we had a \'little chat\' because I\'d done something a little bit silly, whereas I approached you in good faith with a private message. I was hoping the thread could just be closed, but now it looks like little Phil gets a smack on the hands for not playing nicely. Authoritative madness.

Anyway, as we were...can we just pull the plug? (sorry Mr Tay!)
 

Dragonsreach

Super Moderator
Staff member
Phil:
I see your point. My wording has ended up being tactless and causing you discomfort and unhappiness for which I apologise.

Let me clarify something for everyone. Phil (Reverend) did not get his hands slapped, get ranted at nor was there any other form of unpleasant discussion. If I have given that impression then I was WRONG.

In light of reverends request I am now going to close this thread.
 
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