IPM I would never try to buy one of my kids love. I believe that love and respect must be earned so have no fear about that.
I have no intention of F@#king it up but we are humans and prone to mistakes so I wiil take it real slow with my daughter.
My younger two kids have run the gammet of emotions so Im glad its all on the surface and they are not keeping things locked up. They are both very excited about havong an older sister so ther is no prob there. They are both peeved (and by that they feel betrayed) by me for keeping it a secret but we are open enough to get past that.
It was never my choice to part from Jess but I will not try to force the Dad issue with her. As far as Im concerned I was just the donor but I hope to have her as part of my life again. I\'ll take whatever she is willing to offer as it is by far better than what I had.
I have no intention of F@#king it up but we are humans and prone to mistakes so I wiil take it real slow with my daughter.
My younger two kids have run the gammet of emotions so Im glad its all on the surface and they are not keeping things locked up. They are both very excited about havong an older sister so ther is no prob there. They are both peeved (and by that they feel betrayed) by me for keeping it a secret but we are open enough to get past that.
It was never my choice to part from Jess but I will not try to force the Dad issue with her. As far as Im concerned I was just the donor but I hope to have her as part of my life again. I\'ll take whatever she is willing to offer as it is by far better than what I had.
