The Great Love Chase!

AlexDaKid

New member
Tomorrow CMONers I am embarking to New York from my sunny side of the Atlantic with the sole intention of getting back a girl I lost 2 years ago to a Football (american football) playing jock.

Now we can have all the she\'s no good for you arguments later, the important thing is I love her and I want her back!

The question is will I get her back.... Place bets NOW!
 

Seer

New member
May the force be with you

young padawan... Do, or do not, there is no try... (sorry, who could resist quoting Yoda?) :)
 

Nailpainter2003

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Proof of desire is pursuit....

AlexDaKid: Follow your heart, as there is no harm in trying......For if you don\'t, you will never know and therein, the odds are definitely against you. So you win either way.

I\'ve written you a little poem to give to your lady friend. Feel free to use it, or not. Good luck!

Though divided by time and distance
And tied to mere whims of chance
We yield to this rapturous dance
And confound the cautious stance....


D. Faye Nail
 

Cerridwyn1st

New member
Why do you say, \"she\'s no good for you\" arguments? Why would we say that, when we know nothing about her? Just because she went for a guy who plays football?

It\'s kind of hard to say how things will go, not knowing any history on this. Things like how you got together, why you split, why you suddenly want to go now, what\'s her relationship with the football player, what has been the quality and quantity of contact since you split, etc.

IF it\'s a situation where she\'s contacted you because she\'s unhappy with said football player and misses you, you may need two tickets back to Cali. :D

If you just got a wedding announcement in the mail and want to try to talk her out of it, probably not.
 

dauber22

New member
\"Sleepless in Truro\"

Hey! It\'s worth a shot! Go for it!

I\'m sure we\'ll all be [insert ritual of choice] to [insert diety of choice] for you!
 

AlexDaKid

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The Story

Are we sitting comfortably children? Good then lets begin...

5 years ago our school arranged an exchange program with a school in america. I was not one of the lucky students who got picked to go but one of my close friends (infact a lot of my close friends) was picked to go. He came back telling me about a girl on the exchange who was coming over that was the most beautiful, funny and amazing girl he had ever met.
He told NO lies! This girl was (and I have to assume still is) funny beautiful and amazing. We hit it off like nothing you have ever seen, the chemistry was electric!
Now heres where you have to understand something, up until this point in my life, I was dead against ANY serious relationship in my life and I didn\'t really want one ever, let alone in my schoolgirl pulling prime! That could\'ve cut in on some serious nookie with plenty of random girls!:]
A long running long distance relationship ensued with me falling deeper and deeper in love with this girl until eventually we met again. The chemistry was again electric, I have never been with or talked to any person (man or woman!) who understands me or completes me the way she does.
However, after we again went back to our separate sides of the Atlantic, communication became sporadic. There were rumours abound that she was cheating on me and always had been, my friends and hers came to blows over everything.
Eventually after 5months of constant rumour and miscommunication I asked her straight out, had she cheated on me...
The answer, yes, 6 times in two years....

She claimed that she was sorry and her excuse was that she had not wanted to give up her youthful sleeping around days and she wanted to experience more of life before she settled down. Unfortunately I totally had to understand this as this is how I had felt before I met her.
Begrudgingly I ended the relationship and decided it was best for my sanity to never speak to her again, not because I didn\'t want to but because I could not handle seeing or hearing her and not being able to be with her. So for both our sakes I stopped talking.....
The only contact I had from her was from one of her friends a while ago who told her to tell me that she had a boyfriend and she hoped I was doing well......

So onto this year, I am going to New York for a couple of days and it is my first time back in the States since I saw her last. I e-mailed a few of my old Stateside friends to organize a get together. Smack me with a pony sideways! Who should e-mail me?? You guessed it! And she wants to meet me in New York.
Now after two years I can surely meet her again? I am bigger better stronger physically and mentally! BUT this woman brings me to my knees by entering a room!!! :( Do I have a chance? Good Question, better yet, good story!
 

finn17

New member
Good luck!!

You have a lot of people here on CMON who will be backing you all the way.

We would also like to hear the results of your endeavours...:D

But, whilst being positive...just make sure you have an \'exit strategy\' planned as well as a \'success strategy\':innocent:

If it all works out...we could meet up for a point at some pint...;)

May your God go with you, and I hope things work out as you would desire:D
 

AlexDaKid

New member
Lurch that wasn\'t hair gel! (someone explain:eek:;))

As for meeting up for a pint Finn, hell yeah! I am sure that you will have seen me around in cornwall somewhere!

Well I\'m off to New York! I\'ll be back Monday to update the story and hopefully tell you a wonderful fairytale in new york kinda thing!:]:flip::flip:
 
G

G-nome

Guest
Zap!

A bit faster than \"Damn fast\" :D

And good luck to you fella you\'d regret it if you didnt go meet her. I\'m not saying you wont regret meeting her but if you dont go you\'ll never know and it will bug you for ever.
 
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