The Great Love Chase!

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Cerridwyn1st

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Here\'s hoping for a happy ending.

Alex:

Thanks for filling us all in. As someone who\'d loved a few and lost a few in her time, here\'s hoping you the best of luck. If we get a message next Tues. with a location of somewhere in the US instead of Cornwall, it will be real obvious what happened. lol

Good luck!

Cerri
 
Duende

Duende

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I\'d like to be positive......

You may like each other a lot but it seems to me that she doesn\'t respect you enough to at least be honest with you, and to tell you that your relationship isn\'t monogamous, at least on her end. If she just could have said that she\'d be seeing other people as well as keeping in touch wilth you, I think it would have saved a lot of grief.

And if you got back together now, the fact she cheated on you in the past will come back to haunt you in the future. You may wonder sometimes if there\'s something she\'s not telling you, and the rift that causes will eventually drive you apart.

I hate to be such a downer, but I\'m old and cynical and speaking from experience. But on the bright side, since she\'s into cheating, you can still have a fling with her and enjoy visiting the Big Apple! Have Fun!!

:( --> lol

P.S. Does she know about your CMON addiction?? That could be important! ;)
 
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stumpkiller

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Originally posted by wiccanpony
:D Go for it!!!!!!!

(you would be kicking yourself if you didn\'t at least try);)
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Ok, after reading your story, I understand the \"she\'s no good for you\" part, and she may not be. One of the most important things in a long term relationship is trust. It is a dificult thing to earn when a person\'s past points to less than trustworthy behavior, but I agree that if you don\'t go, you will always wonder...:]:)
 
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mule

old and stubborn
I must say that I rate you a better chance now than when I envisioned you at the old fisticuffs with a gridiron player...

Keep your chin up and be ready to go on whatever the result.

Best of Luck;)
 
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The_Avatar

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Tell her that you\'re there to get her o else!!!

And kick that football player\'s balls...

May the force be with you!
 
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The_Avatar

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HAR HAR HAR, I didn\'t see the poll before!

It\'s just hillarious, but there\'s one sentence missing:

¿Who cares? You are a MAN, and men do not care of consequences, a MAN must do what a MAN is supposed to do... Because if he does not... he is not a MAN.

:p

Go and try... and if she says no tell her...

whatever... I\'ll survive :cool:
 
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Herb the bitter

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I\'m with Duende here.

Seems to me that you two handled the distance differently as you were a case of \"absence makes the heart grow fonder\" whereas she was \"out of sight, out of mind\". The fact that she cheated on you six times in two years leads me to believe she would do it again as soon as she is unhappy. (Had you broken up without the affairs, I would have voted differently.)

Be sure to pack lots of Gatorade for the weekend as it should be fun, but I think you\'d be better off viewing it as a farewell tour.

HtB
 
tooshy

tooshy

Active member
Oooh lurve is in the air....

Ok, so he\'s gone already, but I\'m still going to put in my two penneth worth.

I sincerely hope it works out Alex - but if not a long term relationship, at least have fun whilst in the Big Apple. I\'ll be keeping my fingers, legs and bra crossed for ya - mainly because I haven\'t recovered from a yoga class yet :rolleyes:

I want...no NEED to know that love is still outthere in the big wide world. Can\'t wait for an update when you come back :D

To give you some inspiration:

\"Love is the answer; but while you are waiting for the answer, sex raises some pretty good questions..\" Woody Allen ;)
 
Sand Rat

Sand Rat

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Yeah, the picture of Woody Allen and sex in my brain that it generated caused me to go get my brain power washed - course then I saw a new lingeree commercial over here with Bob Dylan and a scantaly clad lingeree model running around and had to do it all over again - and wash my eyeballs to boot. lol
 
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Mr.S.Marbo

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Good luck, I hope it went well. As someone who very rarely falls in love, but falls head over heals when I do, I would have probably done as you have! Hope you had a good time, and post an update for all us nosey parkers hehe
 
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AlexDaKid

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THE UPDATE....

Well here I am folks back from the Big Apple.

First of all let me say that New York was even more amazing than I remember it and if you live in New York HOW GOOD WAS THE WEATHER THIS WEEKEND?!?! For those of you who don\'t let me explain that it was hotter than July! Ok on with the story....

As you may of guessed a beautiful Spring morning in New York City setting for what can only be described as a bloody intense day! I arranged to meet her just outside Central Park at 11 (I was there at 8.30 chewing my way through my fingernails, bones, lips, anything!). At 11.05 I saw the most amazing girl walk round the corner of FAO Schwarz and into my eyeline. We stared at each other for a few seconds until a familiar voice uttered from the young ladies mouth in astonishment \"Alex?\". I ain\'t gonna make no bones about it, I sat there rooted to a marble bench and burst into tears of joy, sadness, madness everything! She ran towards me and flung her arms around me in what can only be described as the most fairytale moment in New York history (I kid you not people started clapping and taking pictures as we stood embraced at the base of FAO Schwarz!). For that brief moment all the tension and nerves that we were feeling was lifted, it was a perfect moment of something magical that defined every reason why I wanted this girl back in my life. BUT that only lasted a brief instant of a second.......

We sat down at a little coffee house just inside the park and after all the \'how are you\' \'hows your family\' crap I got straight into it. I told her everything, I poured my heart out onto the paved floors of that little coffee shop and held nothing back, nothing to lose right? Wrong!
She replies... \"Oh alex your so special but me and Aaron are happy together, he makes me feel secure and wanted. You didn\'t offer me that, we were young and I wasn\'t ready, you may well be everything I want in a man now but I\'ve changed I want Aaron not you, I\'m sorry\".....

I can\'t believe I memerised those words but there it is I can remember it like I remember where I was when Lenon was shot (I was in a testicle...:|~).

Heart ripping yes BUT... it gets worse!!! Her next sentence
\"Actually alex I kinda had a motive for coming here. You\'ve always been so special to me and I couldn\'t not have you involved in the biggest descision of my life\" (I\'m now thinking \"Dump Aaron?\" \"Dump Aaron?\" Is that your desicion???!)\"Will you give me away at my wedding? Me and Aaron are engaged.\":(:(:(:(:(

How many damn times do I have to give this girl to \'Aaron\'?!:mad: Is once not enough?!??!?!?!

Well thats about the most of it... I have a year and a bit to turn myself into everything she\'s ever wanted. Tricky yes I know! Well hey you live and you learn, I am heartbroken but then again I kinda expected it. Not for her to be marrying him and for me to be giving her away thats harsh but oh well. If she\'s happy.... So if anyone wants to come join me in Las Vegas next September for one helluva party crash your all invited by me to my Ex\'s wedding!!!!!lol:rolleyes::(:mad:

She has a cute sister you know!:D

Alex
 
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Taer

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Harsh and painful, but at least she didn\'t string you along. Still....sucks bad. Sorry \'bout it. :flip::bouncy:
 
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Nelson

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Heheh, this sounds like so many movies I\'ve (unfortunately) watched, and would be eaten up by those hollywood vultures in an instant, like so many little lambs. Five words for you, Alex....intensive psychological and physical regime!! :D You\'ve got a year, you say? That should be enough......

Awhh, I really am sorry to hear it didn\'t work out, I\'m young enough to not have had any serious, heart-breaking relationships, but I\'m sure it hurts. I know I was cheering for you, cause we at CMON look out for our own.

A pretty sister, you say? Marry her, and 20 years down the road, you\'ll still be nice and thin from the lack of physical excercise, while that football guys muscle will have turned to fat......Then gloat!!
:bouncy:
 
yrret

yrret

Member
At the risk of being ridiculed etc

As a person who has been married 3 times, and the third one really is the charm, I want to remind you of a Garth Brooks song, which quotes some truism of life.
\"Sometimes I thank god for unanswered prayers\"

Move on I say. And never forget one of my favorite lines for such a situation.

\"So, I guess we\'re splitting the check.\"
 
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LordofthePit

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aw, man that sucks I was really hoping everything would work out for you(I actually kept checking the forums for this thread to know if it did...)
but like everyone has said already: at least you tried and now you can move on (with the cute sister prhaps? :D)
 
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