I\'m currently discussing with a friend in a MUSH; she just started painting, and asked for good hints, good recommendations, and so on. (Referred to this site\'s painting guides and stuff, too)
She mentioned the miniature she was painting; Reaper\'s Alvhaera -- and I remarked that I have the same miniature. And the discussion moved onwards. I\'ll quote (omitting the names, though.)
<Me> grins. Question -- how do you like Reaper\'s miniatures in general?
<She> says, \"Very much so. Particularly Sandra Garrity.\"
<Me> hehs. She\'s my favorite too

<Me> says, \"Can you specify anything why they catch your fancy?\"
<She> says, \"Their female minis tend to be cool. They also seem more realistically proportioned and don\'t have HUGE BOOBS EVERYWHERE.\"
<She> says, \"They look more like real women, not like they\'re trying to seduce whoever\'s painting them.\"
<She> wells, some of Garrity\'s probably have large boobs, but they look like they exist as something other than love interests/war prizes?
Moving onwards.
Question 1: Of the gamers you know how many really want a mini that looks like them? I go to the game store and predominantly I see Huge Overweight Males, and the females, also huge overweight, what do they dream of? Huge over weight male figs? I think not.
Answer 1: Gee. How many? I don\'t know. I asked couple of friends of mine to pose (clothed) for miniature ideas; I didn\'t hear objections. My friends are gamers; some of them fit within \'currently trendy and approved norms of body types\', some of them do not. Are we /that/ discomfortable with ourselves, when we do not fullfill some fantastic expectation placed upon us by the media which churns out a nobody-with-a-pretty-body, one after another?
Q2: Just because a stereotype exists, does it mean that it has to be repeated, repeated, repeated, repeated, repeated, repeated, repeated?
A2: Pardon me, but the \'evil hag of the fairy-tales\' does not fly. If we clung to sheer stereotypical thinking -- well, I\'ll leave it as an exercise of imagination regarding *other* stereotypes that exist in literature. (I\'d rather not start a discussion about this as it can get very, very nasty and disruptive)
\'Right or wrong, this is the way it is\' equals to giving up in front of a problem; wishing that it would go away. It will not go away. One day the change *will* happen.
For a war-gaming audience the issue of elderly and such probably carries little, if no meaning. (Under the protective layer of armor everyone\'s equal, especially with visors down.) But I\'m speaking from a tabletop roleplaying perspective; gaming, as a hobby *did* change in 90s.
Right -- so what sort of games would call for grandmotherly women, old women, women of different looks, bodies?
Vampire: the Masquerade, Werewolf: the Apocalypse, Changeling: the Dreaming, Mage: the Ascension, Wraith: the Oblivion -- just from the White Wolf block. With D&D3E, and change in its tone, I can quite easily see myself playing such character. A mother turned to warrior, and so on. BESM (Big Eyes, Small Mouth); elderly figures of tremendous power are staple in anime. Ars Magica. Pendragon. Tribe 8 (with its matriarchal societies). Harn. Blue Planet. Earthdawn. Little Fears. Kult. Call of Cthulhu. Amber. In Nomine. Wheel of Time. Aberrant (how does that pimply-faced geeky girl deal with the fact that despite her looks, she has the Mega-Charisma power?).
And finally -- GURPS Discworld and Terry Pratchett\'s Discworld series. If Granny Weatherwax (wise, but a bitter crone), Nanny Ogg (an enormous elderly woman with a massive libido), Magrat (first no-one, then the queen of Lancre, then a mother and warrioress) and Agnes (Magrat\'s student; a woman with a weight problem and dual-personality) aren\'t non-cliche women, exact opposites of dream-factory-Hollywood products, but women with *solid* personalities, something to give to the game world... eh.
I said, I\'m 26, almost 27. I\'ve been gaming roleplaying games since 1990; as the years go by, the interest to play a cute fluffy bunny-perfect-perky body wanes. (Especially after I started playing in MU*s. GYAH! See http://pub37.ezboard.com/ftastelessdescsfrm1 -- you\'ll discover what I mean...)
Yeah. I have had characters who have been OH MY GOD, BEAUTIFUL. But I\'ve also had characters with average looks, nothing out of ordinary, and that has been as much fun as those others.
Not everyone plays in a fantasy or sci-fi environment; there are people who play in modern settings, or in more medieval settings (no magic, for example).
Not everyone wants to play a \'Mary Sue\' all the time (see http://missy.reimer.com/library/marysue.html); just because the character I play is not perfect, it doesn\'t mean that the character is drab, disinteresting, just like the *perceived* me (see http://www.riverdeep.net/current/2002/05/050602t_beauty.jhtml), just because I have a body which does not match with the expectations I could never achieve without going through a genetic reengineering and rebirth.
I will not have a slender, delicate body; thousands of years of northern evolution have given me broad shoulders, sturdy, strong frame. My eyes are of the wrong hue for today\'s trend; I can\'t wear contacts. My hair requires constant dyeing if I wish to keep up with the fashion, and it doesn\'t take it well. Henna is about the best I can use.
And once again, I repeat: no one is taking or asking to take away the pretty, half-naked, model-thin women. What we want is diversity. More choices.
My Significant Other has an excellent term for this sort of situation: The Mint Ice Cream Dilemma. This is how it works:
1) There is no mint ice cream (of real cream) in the freezers of Finnish stores.
2) When we asked about the possibility of having mint ice cream to the store, the reply was \'It does not sell!\'
3) Mint ice cream has never been available in stores, but it has been possible to purchase it in the summer, from small kiosks selling mint ice cream (straight from the factory; similiar to the 5 litre boxes of chocolate, vanilla and strawberry ice cream you can buy from those stores). As far as I\'ve seen, mint ice cream is amongst four best-selling types.
4) Conclusion: Mint ice cream does not sell in stores because you can\'t buy it from the stores, and they do not order it because it does not sell.
If there are no alternatives, how they could possibly sell? Heck. Get Sandra Garrity to sculpt one, and Haley to paint it, and let\'s see about how marketable those ideas get.
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Addendum regarding the latest post which popped up while I was still typing my reply:
I am not sure if you know what you mean; White Wolf\'s \'alternating nouns\' *never* meant \'use she only\', but they have a blend of he-she in proper context of the gaming books. If you do not believe me, I\'ll gently ask you to recheck your books and sources for the confirmation of this. The current White Wolf\'s \'Writer\'s Guideline\' (available through their website) states:
* Gender-bending fun: Pay attention to the way we handle sexist language in our products. Use \"humanity\" or \"humankind\" or \"people\" instead of \"mankind.\" Alternate genders when using third-person singular pronouns in nonspecific manners. Try to write in the plural to avoid the situation, but do not force yourself to do so. Eventually it just sounds silly to write \"their\" all the time.
Since I collect lots and lots WW stuff (and game it as well), I can confirm that they stick to this, and have done so from the beginning (I\'ve the 1st printings of the 5 core books).