Uber is leaving teaching.......finally! lol

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uberdark

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So today I finished my resume and have applied to work for Amazon and a few other places. It looks like I am possibly moving to the Seattle area. I have friends who work there and have said as long as I don't blow the interview, I am set. Now comes the hard part, .........I have to give up custody of my two beloved boys. Not just moving to a town 100 miles away but 1000 miles away. There are certain times and hard roads a person has to make a choice, and this added money will not only help me but give my boys everything they need, with the exception of their Father being there all the time. the ex has already promised they can spend the entire summer with me and christmas and spring break, but damn it if this decision is not hard to the highest level.

thoughts, words, and advice are always appreciated. But please do not call me a dead beat dad, because I will do my damndest to make my time with them even more special.
 
crystella333

crystella333

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I think this has been a long time coming my dear. Decisions like this are not easy, and are gut wrenching, but are for the best. From hearing how its been going the last few weeks in the school, hell yeah you needed to get out before something happened that would not be good in any sense of the word. You took the first and most hardest step by applying elsewhere and with good prospects as well. Your boys will understand, maybe not right away but in time. Plus they will have a good adventure heading out to see you.
 
cannon_fodder

cannon_fodder

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Good luck with all of that. Sometimes, having the best version of their dad, but having him farther away, is better than having him close physically, but less so in other ways due to work and/or related things. I've been in the latter situation, and I can't say it isn't still causing issues years later. I can also say Skype is a great thing, and as long as you keep in contact, it'll be easier on them. I am also married to a teacher and know how that field wears you down and what type of strength is needed, and how much taking care of other peoples kids can get in the way of the relationship of your own (generalization of the profession, not you as an individual)

So I say again, good luck and sometime slapping paints on miniatures is more rewarding when it's simply cathartic rather than artistic and focused. But, just like a career, if it ain't fun and rewarding, it ain't worth it.

Lastly, if you do move to Seattle, make sure you have multiple full spectrum lights throughout the house. Artificial sunlight can counter any depressive effects long rainy spells can have on some people (myself included). (I'm also jealous of your potential proximity to Privateer Press headquarters, but that's a different issues)
 
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uberdark

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freak: no the economy kept me from it for years. however i just talked to the ex tonight guys. she is wanting to move their too!!!!! so her and the boyfriend and my boys will all be out there and i will still be with my boys!!!! this night keeps getting better.
 
wiccanpony

wiccanpony

Official Freak Bar Witch
Sounds like it's a win-win for you, and you will be closer to Roger, Liz and me ... now what size plug do I need to order ;)

Good Luck Sweetie
 
airhead

airhead

Coffin Dodger / Keymaster
Break a lead. (daughter is in theater.... cannot wish you the L word).

You've put up with a ton of crap in your job...Part of the reason I didn't quit mine and go to teaching was reading your trials & tribulations.

I do hope you land it and it becomes something you enjoy.

Tight lines,
K
 
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