working stress

Helga

New member
is it increasing?

I do not get much pleasure out of my work lately because any task done is overriden by scores of new tasks, so that the joy of success is smothered in multiplied demands. I thought it was just me getting old... underperforming...
Last week I talked to a teamleader in one of our production plants and out of nothing he began to cry, a grown man of 35 years. He was totally exhausted, physically as well as emotionally, having worked 12 hour days for weeks and getting instead of acknowledgement a reprimand for costs in his division.

Here is something horribly horribly going wrong
Is it just a phenomenon or do You feel the work-harder-for-less pressure as well?
 

Legacy Account

Active member
Standard procedure that, these days aint it?

I got much the same response from my employers in education. Pour loads of time and effort in and just receive bullshit back.

I quickly developed a great coping mechanism - the \'Bollocks to it\' strategy.:D
 

Helga

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Orginal gepostet von Spacemunkie
I quickly developed a great coping mechanism - the \'Bollocks to it\' strategy.:D

great stragedy but not much use when your heart is in it
 

supervike

Super Moderator
here it is Saturday night, and I am at the office, since I was paged.

I have to be the \'on call\' tech once every month or so, and normally its quiet. This week, I\'ve been paged out every single night.....

Gotta pay for those minis somehow!
 

EricJ

Active member
I do have a lot of work stress, but I have to admit it\'s self inflicted. I have a 40 hour a week job, which is fairly demanding, but overly so, but I\'m the one who also decided to try to start my own business and and essentually tack on another 30 hours a week in work :( (like supervike, here I am saturday night working away to finish up work)

Add on top of this buying my first new house and the whole moving thing and yep, I\'ve been pretty exhauseted lately.

However I\'ve always been one to work well under stress, the more I have to do, the better I tend to do it. When I\'m not pressed, I generally find ways to waste time until I am anyway, so I figured I may as well press myself from the start and get a leg up on this thing we call \"life\" :D

The real trick is working a little painting in with everything else
 

MarkusTay

New member
Multi-tasking - the new corporate buzz word...

I worked for Home Depot for a year

The #1 reason for people taking a medical leave of absence there was STRESS. You are expected to perform at 120% no matter what, anything less and you get \'weeded\' out. They claim they do this because they only want the best service for their customers; the truth is they want only 20 employees to run an entire store whereas 10 years ago there were 100. This means if there are 30 customers in one of your aisles, and you manage to somehow help (juggle) 29 of them, but the 30th one complains because they had no help, YOU, the rep for that dept, gets written up! They NEVER see what you do, only what you FAIL TO DO. Forget the fact that it is a management decision to run a store short on staff, it is YOUR FAULT! Everyone is expected to be at least familiar with EVERY OTHER DEPARTMENT, be able to operate EVERY MACHINE in the building, and be able to drive each piece of loading equipment. In the year I was there I was the only one who actually filled ALL of those requirements. Hey, why not? If they wanted to pay for the training for my 300 some odd certifications then more power to them. I thought this would endear me to the company, but instead it just made me more \'useable\'. They took advantage, and used me on every shift, and to fill in when other didn\'t show. The \"under-performers\" were never mis-treated this way, because no one wanted to use them any more then they had to. Myself and others, who actually did our job above and beyond the call of duty got shat on by the \"man\" because useful people get USED. I noticed, just before I left, that two people who were known for shirking and always \'disappearing\' when there was hard work to be done got PROMOTED to department heads. This makes a twisted sort of sence: If someone is doing a truly excellent job why move them? Give the MANAGEMENT positions to people who don\'t do much anyway (I actually had the nerve to ask my asst. Manager why this was, and he said because those are the type of people who are best at \'delegating responsibilty\"!).

My mother has worked for the United States Govt for 28 years, and its even more true there. She is a federal purchasing agent, and every year she gets in trouble for saving the Govt millions of dollars. You see, she does her job very well, and gets them the best price on everything from office supplies, to contractor bids, to toilet paper and computers! Unfortunately, it means her division is usually the only one left with a lot of money at the end of the year. Left over money = less money in next year\'s budget, something that is frowned upon by her supervisors. So... she spends 11 months out of the year winning awards for saving them money, and then spends the last four weeks scrambling around buying crates of $750 hammers... that just sit unused in some warehouse somewhere.

It is the nature of what our jobs have become... the duplicity in our lives if you will... that has made us all slightly unbalanced. When people are getting in trouble for doing the right thing then it is time we all take a long hard look at this little high-tech society we have built for ourselves and re-evaluate what is important in our lives.

My kids can\'t eat pride or self-respect, but they sure can\'t eat at all with a father who\'s dead from a heart attack in his forties.
 

RedDawn

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Markus - it\'s not just in the store either!

One of Grumb\'s best friends from college went to work for Home Depot about a year ago. He\'s now ready to leave!! He\'s a VERY well-paid computer \"guy\" who\'s found the EXACT same thing! He does his job and all the other jobs they can\'t find someone else to do! :mad: He\'s now looking for another job because he\'s working 60 - 80 hours a week and not getting any kind of pat-on-the-back.
 

Itchy

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I hear you MT. The bicycle company i worked for during the last 13 months just moved (finish packing the trailer wednesday) to texas. When i hired on there were 2 welders, 2 fabrication guys one bicycle builder and a secretary. On wednesday there was a welder and me (fab guy). They wanted me to move to Texas with them, but when i turned them down they hired FIVE EXTRA GUYS just to do my job. How many raises did i get while i was there? ONE for 50 cents. And the boss was ALWAYS on my case about how i wasn\'t time efficent and not going clean enough work, but we got letters (remember when i sawed my finger off? i was working the office because it\'s either that or no paycheck) from retailers saying our bikes where the cleanest they\'d ever seen them. It must have been my bikes they were talking about... i was the only one there doing fab work. Eh, i worked my ass off for next to nothing, worked there a year, got my free bike frame and wished them luck in texas. But i did manage to eat $1.09 chimechungas and servive... and i learned that fruit and vegitables are normally pretty cheap at farmer\'s markets, so it wasn\'t a total loss. But working yourself sick, and working sick and making so little money that you really can\'t afford doctor\'s visits... i really wouldn\'t be surprised to hear that minimum wage jobs are killing people around the world. i\'m just glad i\'m not a child working in a sweat shop.
 

Dragonsreach

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Staff member
Using the term Working Stress is misnomer. Stress is generated by so many factors in our lives.

You\'ve all stated classic cases of what is affecting you at your work place, but what are the additional factors?

For me it goes like this........

I have two parents, both in their 70\'s and not in the best of health. My father has Angina and my mother has had a Stroke which has left her with some loss to her memory. Her behaviour is very much the \"Drama Queen\", which it always has been but since the stroke she\'s playing on it.
My wife\'s parents are both still alive. My Mother in law is 80 and looks after her husband who is in a right state. He has severe Hardening of the arteries, Alzheimers disease. He has survived a heart attack which should have killed him as at one point his heart function was down to 30% of normal. His right leg has been amputated and is possibly looking at the amputation of the other leg.

I have a friend who was in some distress and for him I have acted as a listening post and counsellor.

I\'ve taken over a very large and worthwhile project involving a hobby I love and had to sit and receive anonymous insults via email, snide and goading comments, while trying to remain polite and cheerful as I\'m also trying to get the final stages of the project to completion.

Add onto this that I have to drive 40 miles to work and then 40 back through a major metropolitan city, get walked all over by people at work who exist in a culture of blame. Have to give over projects I\'ve worked on and developed to other people who are the managements current favourites.
It\'s no wonder that my stress levels have started to manifest themselves into physical issues, chest pains, increased attacks of Menieres syndrome, tiredness, irritability, lack of concentration and sleeplessness.

So Helga; I totally understand your colleague who broke down in tears.
 

Legacy Account

Active member
Yeah, that\'s pretty sad Mike. Pretty spineless to do that sort of thing anonymously. They sound like total losers and I\'d give it no further thought.

As for the abuse and general mistreatment of staff in the work place, I am no longer prepared to work in that sort of environment. I\'ve handed my notice in twice in the past 18 months because of employers and colleagues taking liberties.

I\'m afraid employers seem to be taking the \'stick\', rather than the \'carrot\' approach. I\'m not talking about money here either. Simply a few positive words and an appreciation for what you are doing would be enough for me.

It\'s funny, in education you are always told to be positive and encouraging with your students, and yet this is diametrically opposed to what happens with staff!

A job is just a job. I\'ve come to the conclusion that it should be treated as such until I come across an employer who sees me as an asset and not just a commodity.
 

Ritual

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I\'d say I\'m pretty lucky in having a job where my (somtimes quite substantial) efforts are greatly appreciated. My boss used to work 16 hour days when he started the business up and that wore him out. My work enables him to work maybe 10 hours a day instead of 16, so it\'s pretty obvious he should be grateful! :D

Work can be very stressful at times, but when I get good response from my boss, it\'s not that bad. Makes you feel good about yourself after a difficult project has been completed!
 

cdukino

Member
Originally posted by Helga
Orginal gepostet von Spacemunkie
I quickly developed a great coping mechanism - the \'Bollocks to it\' strategy.:D

great stragedy but not much use when your heart is in it

well works for me... but then again my heart hasn\'t been in it for a long time already. Ah pays the bills.
 

Mr.S.Marbo

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It\'s the way the worlds going I think. I am lucky in one respect that my employer does not require me to work long hours.

Where I am not so lucky however is the time I am in work. Recently it has gone mad in that everything is timed and checked. There is a \"time\" calculated for every piece of work from answering a letter from a customer, to making a phone call. Then at the end of the week you get a report that gives you a percentage of \"how hard you worked\" and if this percentage drops or your percentage is less than others you can expect a \"chat\" with a manager. When they first introduced this quality dropped. So now its a two pronged attack in that a percentage of everything you do is checked with talk of disciplinary proceedures against those who consistantly do badly in this. Couple that with poor bespoke computer programs, angry customers (verbal abuse is not that uncommon), increasing restrictive management practices that aim to show up \"inefficencies\" and you can see why sick leave is a problem. The annoying thing is that we struggle to meet targets yet jobs are being cut AND overtime is offered.

This is probably nothing unusual now in the world of work and its no wonder mental illness such as anxiety disorders, depression and stress are increasing and becoming major problems in developed nations.
 

finn17

New member
Stress is the biggest killer....

Forget cancer/heart attacks etc...

Stress nearly saw me off once...now....I don\'t let anything f*ck me up.

I live in total squalor however, as amongst the first things I \'cancelled\' were housework and tidying. And. in case I die young. I take at least an hours \'retirement\' every day:D

I also learned to say \'No\' and \'F*ck off\' much more frequently. Believe me, it works wonders:D
 
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