Originally posted by vincegamer
Here\'s the problem with this: Where then will non-smokers go to do the social things that smokers do but be without smoke? One smoker in a bar can ruin the environment for a non-smoker. The reverse is not true.
I am not a smoker, never have been, nor do I wish to be. However, in all fairness, there is a harsh level of unfairness and rudeness that does happen to a smoker these days. I see many who smoke that are being told to go out in the cold and rain or severe heat to smoke...not even being able to stand under breezeways any longer because it is still 30 ft from a door (HELLO IT IS OUTSIDE!?!?) How is this fair? It isn\'t.
That same type of bs is happening to obese people now...and I am sure there is another target group on the list just as soon as the other numbers drop. Grant you, there are times that smoking does bother me...BUT by turning ALL social establishments into NON smoking areas BY LAW ...how I ask, HOW is that fair and equal to smokers. Society is leaving them NO way of living...food establishments, work place, social gatherings, all being made non-smoking...as if to say \'we will FORCE you to stop\' ...
Yet...to many (STRESS: NOT ALL) to many non-smokers that is perfectly acceptable because it does not cause any discomfort to themselves so why worry it is for \'their\' better life. (Which translates into screw anyone that doesnt like and do how I like and do).
BUT I also know...that if the next target group happens to fit into YOUR life and what you want/need/like/hobby to...then finally many of those will be outspoken to the outrage and unfairness. It seems that lately there is NO compromise...and quite frankly, that is going to -in the long run- make everyone miserable. Sadly though, I know many will point still and say \'it is their fault I am unhappy.\'
If it is your choice to do whatever it is you do... least accept responsibility. Many also need to learn that sometimes likes and dislikes will overlap. You cannot please everyone all the time. But I see so many that want immediate gratification and satisfaction to their needs and damn the rest. Oh yeah...real fair... real just....