Yep, the mother is very much responsible too!
See that she is only 19, definitely not mature enough to raise a kid.
In where I live (Hong Kong), we have this situation that many couples that are capable, both mentally and financially, decide not to have kid. while many of those kids (under 20) that can\'t even take care of themselves keep giving birth. This create a lot of issue. A very bad case last year is a single mother, maybe 20, who just party all days and nights, leaving her 3 kids at home. They have no proper beds, the mom doesn\'t clean them, she doesn\'t take them to school, and when she leave home to party, she just drop some breads on the floor and leave. The police found this out when the neighbors complaint about the smell of the kids. They arrest the mother, but the sad thing is, due to the lack of caring and interaction, all 3 kids are, mentally, underdeveloped. The oldest kid, 5 years old, barely know how to speak with other people.
When I read this kind of news, I was mad :cussing:. I have 2 kids, one will turn 3 on May, and another angel just 9 months old. They may take up a lot of my time, but I don\'t mind spend less and less time for my interest while more and more time for theirs, because they are my kids.
sorry for my bad English, and ranting