If I buy online or before I bid on an auction I look at what they are going to charge me for shipping and if not listed I will ask them if it is high then I will not bid on the item.
I try to keep my packaging rates constant so when I quote postage it is the actual postage weight I have calculated then no more than 30 to 50p added to cover my costs which I think is reasonable.
It annoys me when you see people saying postage for a single figure is £3.00 whenyou know damn well it will only cost about a £1.00 and thats including packaging costs
I also tell the potential buyer that I will combine postage for mulile wins this can reduce postage costs dramatically, I recently sent a guy in Italy 14 figures that he had won on my auctions for a fraction of the cost some people charge for a single mini.
At the end of the day it is all about trust and if you want people to buy from you again you have to gain and keep their trust. If you believe someone is trying to rip you off on postage and stating costs other than what they have done in the auction then you should have a right to complain to EBay about it and I dare say if you check the small print then you also have the right to tell them where they can stick there postage over charges.
I am not happy with what Paypal charge me for accepting payments but at the end of the day it is a charge I am willing to accept because of the benifits it allows the buyer/sellar and yes there are times that these charges should be waved as in cases of charity auctions.
